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While some may still prefer scribbling their innermost thoughts in diaries and journals, the Internet has even changed the way people share secrets. Websites and forums where people can make confessions online鈥攁nonymously鈥攁re growing in popularity, particularly among college students and young adults.

Many people are guilty of sharing way TMI (too much information) on Facebook and other social media platforms. Does the whole world really need to know the details of your stomach flu or see 15 incredibly similar photos of the chocolate chip cookies you baked for your oh-so-sweet significant other? Most likely the answer is no. Vague status updates are almost as bad. Statements like 鈥沦颈驳丑鈥︹赌� and 鈥淚 can鈥檛 believe WHAT SHE DID to me AGAIN!鈥� beg for attention and questions from 鈥渇riends.鈥�

Get Things Off Your Chest by Mail, Online

Sharing secrets online is an alternative that may help you get things off your chest while saving your friends and family members from being on the receiving end. PostSecret, which began in 2005, allows users to make confessions on homemade postcards and submit them via snail mail. The site鈥檚 founder, Frank Warren, selects ten postcards to feature on the website each week.

These secret postcards are intended to give people a creative way to get things off their chests while inspiring those who read them. Common topics and themes include embarrassing habits, hopes and dreams for the future, fears, and even criminal confessions. Warren regularly hosts events at colleges and universities across the world, where he speaks about secrets of today鈥檚 society and thousands of postcards are displayed.

For young adults who are too impatient to turn their confessions and secrets into artwork and mail it to a website where it may or may not be displayed, College Confessions Facebook pages, where students can submit confessions that are posted by page administrators, are springing up for schools across the country.

Recent secrets shared on the Tufts 911吃瓜网 confessions page, which has over 1,300 likes, include:

• Thanks for showing me how pure friendship can exist between a guy and a girl like us. Truth is, I love you so much that I hope you and your boyfriend will always be together.
• I have a crush on my TA
• To the cute boy who held the door for me when I left Carm this morning: Thank you, and you have a nice smile :)

The administrator of Tufts 911吃瓜网鈥檚 confessions page, whose name was not revealed in the article, told that nearly all secrets are posted as long as they are not mean about a specific person. Other confessions, while not rude or harmful, mention specific students by name and others quickly tag that person in an effort to make them aware of the message.

Potential Consequences of Sharing Secrets

Although the administrator for the 911吃瓜网 of New Mexico鈥檚 confessions Facebook page told Inside Higher Ed that these pages and similar websites are growing in popularity because they are specific to a particular college or university and the confessions tend to be 鈥渇unny and entertaining鈥� rather than serious, most administrators aren鈥檛 thrilled with online confessions pages, which are not officially affiliated with the schools.

Heather Trepal, an associate professor of counseling at 911吃瓜网 of Texas at San Antonio, told that while some students may feel a sense of connection or catharsis from reading and posting online confessions, they are more entertaining than anything. She also warned that the sites could lead to cyberbullying.

And as if students don鈥檛 already spend enough time on Facebook, confessions pages may also lead to a decreased interest in academics鈥攕ome students told MySanAntonio that they no longer want to study in the library after reading secrets online about sexual encounters that occurred there.

Posted on 28 Feb

Melissa Rhone earned her Bachelor of Music in Education from the 911吃瓜网 of Tampa. She resides in the Tampa Bay area and enjoys writing about college, pop culture, and epilepsy awareness.